Dear Sweet Gentleman, 

Please consult the details below to understand more about your screening and meeting with me. When you are sufficiently prepared with information...And when you feel confident that making my acquaintance would be a delightful enhancement to your life...Then, and only then...

...Please DO consider Contacting Me to accomplish the following:  

a) First, to reassure yourself that I'm a real and lovely person, not a scammer, bait-and-switch girl, or other unpleasant thing. Your comfort will finalize when we speak/chat/zoom together and you can gauge a bit of our chemistry together, or not, as can happen. Have you viewed my intro video?

If, during our initial chat(s), the conversation doesn't flow naturally and nicely, if you're acting "cagey" (or otherwise), and if you don't want to share screening info about you, etc...and if something about me doesn't please you...then we reserve the right not to move to the next level.

b) Please do contact me to go out of your way to assure ME that you're a worthy patron, a safe and sane friend to know, and easily capable (in both the fiscal and logistical sense) of engaging me for a rendezvous. This is because I refuse to entertain anyone for whom my presence represents debt, hardship or working extra hours to afford, etc. I am a luxury companion, not a necessity.

c) Finally, you'll be contacting me as a step on the path to arranging our first meeting and confirming it with a deposit and initiating the fun part: our rendezvous/travel planning...then the most fun part: getting together in person! 

If you're just playing around and wasting my time, I will know right away. Our contact will be terminated faster than a monkey can jump up a tree.

I'm not a pen pal. Communications are to be kept to a minimum until our first in-person meeting. Later, if you wish to write me from time to time with news, I would love to hear from you.

No, I don't have reviews nor do I wish to be "reviewed." If you see a review, it's most likely someone who has not met me. My patron is typically not the type of man who is even aware that this sytems exists. And if he is, he doesn't participate. My patron is screened in a special and unique personalized way that does not require me (or him) to be a member of a screening/service which uses "reviews" as a basis of membership.

Read through my site and you'll understand why I don't meet someone very often. You'll easily see why why, when I do meet with someone, they're SPECIAL. l literally jump for joy when an appropriate person contacts me! :)

No, I do not give clergy discounts. ;)

Please contact me knowing that the confidentiality of your information is assured until I'm safely in your arms (that's when any and all details given will be discarded)...

I'm delighted to hear from an open, honest, trustworthy, kind, well-mannered and sincere gentleman of means who meets my criteria. He knows just the kind of relationship/rendezvous/chemistry he wants.

I only engage with a gent for whom I can easily and readily verify his identity and appropriateness. I meet those who are eager to provide any credentials, ID, and/or publicly-available details so I can feel as comfortable as possible. 

If extra discretion and privacy is necessary to your happiness and inner security, then please do feel free to propose the best way forward, for me to screen you (until we're both completely comfortable).

I seek only to meet an established, secure, educated (or just smart) and decisive man who loves and respects women. He sees the women in his life holistically, as whole people, not the sum of their body parts. 

I have very few major deal breakers (apart from cigarette smoking and over-drinking) and that is the over-consumption of porn. Darling, it really shows in the physical performance and overall romantic outlook of a patron. Please don't contact me if you know yourself to have a little porn problem. I have every sympathy, but I'm not equipped to deal with the fallout from this particular addiction.

With regard to who contacts me and who I'll even contact back, I'm highly intuitive (and experienced) in these matters. Even without all the tech/research available to verify screening, I will typically know right away (even before us speaking) if you're someone I'd probably like to spend time with.

My highest priority with regard to your screening is to hear your sweet voice introduction. Without this first voice intro of yours, nothing is possible between us (although exceptions are made, however one way or another I must speak with you). 

Please see below for more info. If you aren't willing to leave a voice message introducing yourself...then meeting in person will probably not be possible.

Like attracts like, and I do trust the Universe (and my exclusivity, clear expectations and detailed instructions) to bring me a Special Someone.

* I will never contact you first, without first being contacted by you. 

* I will follow whatever instructions are given to me about contact and communications between us. I ask that you respect the same with me. 

* My phone number/messenger, etc. is to be used on our first meeting day only, coordinating travel, greeting, etc. Email is the preferred method of contact for anything else.

* We will always meet in a public place during a first introduction, and under no circumstances will I ever make an introductory visit to a private residence. 

* Please remember: it's your duty as my knightly patron to protect and provide, both before and during our time together. That includes making me as mentally and emotionally comfortable as possible beforehand...that is, with the prospect of meeting you and spending private time with you.

All that said, I do look forward to meeting you!

Hugs from Becca