Dear Sweet Gentleman, 


I'm delighted to hear from an open, honest, trustworthy, kind, well-mannered and sincere gentleman who meets my criteria. He knows just the kind of relationship, rendezvous, and chemistry he wants. As I know exactly the kind of gentleman I wish to meet.

I only engage with a gent for whom I can easily and readily verify his identity and appropriateness. 

Reference and Reviews: No and no. I don't ask for references from other ladies nor do I offer them to other ladies. I don't permit reviews nor will I review you. :)

I meet those who are eager to describe themselves, provide any credentials, ID, and/or publicly-available details so I can feel as comfortable as possible. 

If you think that just sending a nice photo of you with no name, identifiers or other info and  a "Hey...I wanna XYZ..." (Without even bothering to use my name in the salutation!) is going to get you booked with me, please think again...

When contacting me, please put yourself in my shoes, and imagine what information might make a single, petite lady feel most secure and most like contacting you back and inviting you for membership.

If extra discretion and privacy is necessary to your happiness and inner security, then please do feel free to propose the best way forward, for me to screen you (until we're both completely comfortable; I'm open to all ideas). 

I can offer novel and discreet ways for us to meet in public first without seeming connected in any way. But note: I will NEVER meet anyone in private for the first meeting.

I seek only to meet an established, secure, educated (or just smart) and decisive man who loves and respects women. He sees the women in his life holistically, as whole people, not the sum of their body parts. If you intend to treat our interaction as a real life version of a porn clip with me as your long-suffering f*ck doll, please move onward. That's not what I have on offer.

With regard to who contacts me and who I'll even contact back, I'm highly intuitive (and experienced) in these matters. I do not rely upon the "member databases" available to verify screening. I get to know you first through your info given, then we meet in person.

I will typically know right away (even before us speaking) if you're someone I'd probably like to spend time with. And when we meet in person I'll be letting you know if we'll be continuing on into our private time together.

My highest priority with regard to your screening is to hear your sweet voice introduction. Without this first voice intro of yours, nothing is possible between us (although exceptions are made, however one way or another I must speak with you). 

Please see further below for the more detailed instructions. 

Basically it consists of TWO ACTIONS:

1. Voicemail Introduction to 1- 561 eight six eight two zero five seven

2. Introductory Email to [email protected]

3. Follow Up to Chat Together 
by Phone/Text/Email, etc. and Make Our Date 

If you aren't willing to leave a proper voice message introducing yourself (no need to say your name) and telling me more about you (and then matching that with an email introduction)...then meeting in person will probably not be possible.

Alternatively, you can use the Reverb App to create your voice message and send me a link in an email, to listen to it, in case you don’t wish to call my voice mail box below. 

More info on the discreet Reverb: https://reverb.chat/uses/make-voice-message-online/

My Voice Mail Number is USA: + 561-eight six eight two zero five seven

Like attracts like, and I do trust the Universe (and my exclusivity, clear expectations and detailed instructions) to bring me a Special Someone.

Please remember: Email Intro + Voice Mail Intro = Possibility of An Appointment

If for some reason I am not interested in meeting you, you'll get a single rose 🌹. If you get a rose it's because a) your screening/intro was very skimpy,  insufficient and unconvincing....(Sir, don't make me work so hard to screen you!).

Often enough I send a rose because I know for sure we will never hit it off because b) you've been rather rude/made me uncomfortable, etc. So often a rose is yours because you weren't even able use my name, Rebecca, in your salutation or maybe you've called me "Baby" or "Beautiful" because you don't think of me as a human being. In this case the appointment promises to be dehumanizing and depressing, an empty transaction...therefore "no can do."

Sometimes I send a rose or not agree to meet after speaking, just because you seem so immature, flaky, uncertain, and "too much of a newby" in the sense of experience with visiting with lovely providers...Maybe you seem like someone who will not keep the appointment, be a no-show, or cancel last minute due to nerves. Basically, you get a rose because you seem like someone without the adequate respect for the treats I offer and who will waste my time.

Therefore, I will return your email with a "single rose" 🌹 in the subject line. Maybe study a bit more about how to treat escorts and courtesans, Baby!

If you're extremely nervous about this decision to finally supplement that missing intimate and sensual part of your life, maybe book in for a platonic date with me to discuss your reservations, and get more comfortable with what you're attempting to remedy in your life... but whatever you do: do not waste my time.

When you DO get a rose, 🌹 your information will be deleted and no more worries about the thing.


Additional Ethics to Know: 

* I will never contact you first, without first being contacted by you. If you've said it's OK to keep in touch by email about my schedule, etc. then I will do that but typically not by text/phone (only by email) unless specifically requested to do so.

* I will follow whatever instructions are given to me about contact and communications between us. I ask that you respect the same with me. 

* My phone number/messenger, etc. is to be used on our first meeting day only, coordinating travel, greeting, etc. Email to the Proton address is the preferred method of contact for anything else.

* We will always meet in a public place during a first introduction, and under no circumstances will I ever make an introductory visit to a private residence without a public meeting first. 

* Please remember: it's your duty as my knightly patron to protect and provide, both before and during our time together. That includes making me as mentally and emotionally comfortable as possible with your screening beforehand...

Basically: I should arrive to you fully confident that you are who you say you are and that you are a total sweetheart who will be a classic gentleman. You don't need to be handsome, rich, funny, or debonair, or anything like that (you can be shy, nerdy, awkward, handicapped, ill, etc.) What's important is that you are safe/nice/pleasant and appreciative of our time together. All I ask is that you treat me with respect and gentleness.

All that said, I do look forward to meeting you! Please see below for how to get in touch.

Hugs from Becca