Dear Sweet Gentleman, 


I'm delighted to hear from an open, honest, trustworthy, kind, well-mannered and sincere gentleman who meets my criteria. He knows just the kind of relationship, rendezvous, and chemistry he wants. As I know exactly the kind of gentleman I wish to meet.

I only engage with a gent for whom I can easily and readily verify his identity and appropriateness. 

Reference and Reviews: No and no. I don't ask for references from other ladies nor do I offer them to other ladies. I don't permit reviews nor will I review you. :)

I meet those who are eager to describe themselves, provide any credentials, ID, and/or publicly-available details so I can feel as comfortable as possible. 

Please be reminded: I do not offer deep kissing but in other ways, I offer a very intimate and exciting connection.

If extra discretion and privacy is necessary to your happiness and inner security, then please do feel free to propose the best way forward, for me to screen you (until we're both completely comfortable; I'm open to all ideas and methods). 

I can offer novel and discreet ways for us to meet in public first without seeming connected in any way. 

But note: I will NEVER meet anyone in private for the first meeting.

I seek only to meet an established, secure, educated (or just smart) and decisive man who loves and respects women. 

With regard to who contacts me and who I'll even contact back, I'm highly intuitive (and experienced) in these matters. 

I will typically know right away (even before us speaking; just from your email intro) if you're someone I'd probably like to spend time with. And when we meet in person in public first (just a brief meet/greet): I'll be letting you know if we'll be continuing on into our private time together.

I ask for two items: 1. A voice mail introduction, either by phone or other digital means (see below for Reverb) and 2. An email introducing yourself. 

Please note: if you write me without taking the time or care to use my name in the email, it will be deleted and we'll never meet. It really says a lot about a man when he writes me an inquiry without using my name. :)

My highest priority with regard to your screening is to hear your sweet voice introduction. Without this first voice intro of yours, nothing is possible between us (although exceptions are made, however one way or another: I must speak with you). 

Please see further below for the more detailed instructions. 

Basically it consists of THREE ACTIONS:

1. Voicemail Introduction to 1- 561 eight six eight two zero five seven

2. Introductory Email to [email protected]

3. Follow Up to Chat Together 
by Phone/Text/Email, etc. and Finalize Our Date 

If you aren't willing to leave a proper voice message introducing yourself (no need to say your name) and telling me more about you (and then matching that with an email introduction)...then meeting in person will probably not be possible.

Alternatively, you can use the Reverb App to create your voice message and send me a link in an email, to listen to it, in case you don’t wish to call my voice mail box below. 

More info on the discreet Reverb: https://reverb.chat/uses/make-voice-message-online/

My Voice Mail Number is USA: + 561-eight six eight two zero five seven

Like attracts like, and I do trust the Universe (and my exclusivity, clear expectations and detailed instructions) to bring me a Special Someone.

Please remember: Email Intro + Voice Mail Intro = Possibility of An Appointment

If for some reason I am not interested in meeting you, you'll get a single rose 🌹. If you get a rose it's because a) your screening/intro was very skimpy,  insufficient and unconvincing....(Sir, don't make me work so hard to screen you!).

If you're extremely nervous about this decision, I might suggest that you invest in a one-hour Platonic Date option (drinks/coffee/lunch etc.) and we can take it from there as you feel comfortable.

Additional Ethics to Know: 

* I will never contact you first, without first being contacted by you. If you've said it's OK to keep in touch by email about my schedule, etc. then I will do that but typically not by text/phone (only by email) unless specifically requested to do so.

* I will follow whatever instructions are given to me about contact and communications between us. I ask that you respect the same with me. 

* My phone number/messenger, etc. is to be used on our first meeting day only, coordinating travel, greeting, etc. Email to the Proton address is the preferred method of contact for anything else.

* We will always meet in a public place during a first introduction, and under no circumstances will I ever make an introductory visit to a private residence without a public meeting first. 

* Please remember: it's your duty as my knightly patron to protect and provide, both before and during our time together. That includes making me as mentally and emotionally comfortable as possible with your screening beforehand...

Basically: I should arrive to you fully confident that you are who you say you are and that you are a total sweetheart who will be a classic gentleman. 

You don't need to be handsome, rich, funny, or debonair, or anything like that (you can be shy, nerdy, awkward, handicapped, ill, etc.) What's important is that you are safe/nice/pleasant and appreciative of our time together. All I ask is that you treat me with respect and gentleness.

All that said, I do look forward to meeting you! Please see below for how to get in touch.

Hugs from Becca